Well I thought about this and there is one thing that can help defuse the super competitive spirit of Asian Dad. It's music, particularly soulful instrumental music, like a piano or violin. Why else would these crazy Asian dads allow their kids to take up such a time consuming hobby? Music is pleasing to the ears and soothes the soul. Asian dads can stop asking their son "lam bac si chua?" and just enjoy life for the moment. I thank my lucky stars for that.